I signed back up for Plenty of Fish (or POF). I got an overwhelming response. So, I started my “weed” out process. If you don’t want children, I don’t respond. (It’s mean, I know.) If you do drugs, I don’t respond. If you are over the age of 45 (40 really), I don’t respond.
I have “met” a few guys. And by “met”, I mean, we’ve exchanged emails and/or talked on the phone. I met one guy in person, 35, has 1 child, lives in Middletown (not far from Trenton, like 15 minutes) but he just wants to “date”, nothing serious (which, I don’t want that right away but I do want a relationship), can never see himself getting married and wants no more children. *sigh* Needless to say, we won’t work out.
It’s rough out there. And I am getting really discouraged. Unless I want to go on a date with EVERY.SINGLE.GUY. that sends me an email, I’m not sure how to make it better. I’d just like to find a nice, attractive, funny guy who thinks I’m awesome and wants to be with me. I don’t know why that’s so hard to find. Maybe I’m too picky. My mom says that my standards are too high.
So far, the guys I’ve “met”:
Chad – lives in Hebron KY (an hour away), divorced, 1 child. SUPER cute. We chatted back and forth for like a week…..former Cocaine addict, clean 5 months. Buy-bye Chad.
Ryan – guy mentioned above.
Dan – still married. We decided just to be friends. He stopped talking to me.
No one else. Everyone else just sends messages like “Hey.” “Hi gorgeous” “Call me” Blah, blah, blah. *rolls eyes*
I think I’m destined to be single. I TRULY do. I can keep my profile up on POF because it’s free but I’m way discouraged….already….it’s only been like a month…..
Where do people meet but online anymore? All my friends are married and all their friends are married….
I have a good job, my own place, I make decent money, I like to think I'm attractive enough....What the Hannah?????
Are all the single, decent guys gone?
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